Pirates Fight for Old Pine Tree High
For your Alma Mater dear
Pirates Fight for Old Pine Tree High
For victory is near
To old Pine Tree we’ll be loyal
Til the sun drops from the sky
Remembering until the end
Pirates fight, never die!
Class of '86 Classmates and Friends:
There’s a quote that I use often by Gary Thomas, author of the books Sacred Marriage and Sacred Parenting, among others. He says, as it relates to parenting, “…the days are long and the years are short.” It’s true; but not just in parenting. It’s true in life. As I look at all the pictures and read all the posts connected to the 30-year class reunion, I’m overwhelmed with emotion - joy, sadness, regret, love, and on and on I could go. I regret that I was unable to attend. But I cherish the memories and friendship that are connected to these pictures from thirty years ago and now. I’m amazed at the beautiful transparency and honesty with which posts are shared. Posts dealing with some of life’s most challenging, difficult, gut-wrenching issues – depression, suicide, pain and loss. All very real. All very raw. I can’t help but think of the memories I have with two most recent classmates that we’ve lost – Steve Brantley and Craig Russell. I played many years of baseball with and against Steve and Craig both. Those were special times. Steve was always bigger than life – literally. Craig always carried with him an air of confidence – almost cockiness – in all he did. They will be dearly missed, as well as those from our class, who passed on before them. Who would’ve guessed that Craig would’ve been here Friday night and then gone a day later? Who knew that he’d reached a place of helplessness and hopelessness? Who knew that Friday night would’ve been the very last time for most to talk to him, touch him, hug him, help him? The truth is that there are times when we all need help. For different reasons and at different times, we each need help. We need a friend. We need each other. I’m very appreciative of the vulnerability with which many of you, my ’86 PTHS classmates, have shared that vulnerability. We all have a story. Our stories are filled with joys and pains, mountains and valleys, ups and downs. Each story carries with it similarities to other stories and uniqueness as your story. Each story important and valuable and with a need to be heard. Because we need to learn from each other. We’re able to comfort and love and encourage others as their life stories intersect ours. Those intersections may be frequent or infrequent; regular or thirty years a part. When they happen; however, is not as important as this: when they happen, they must be seen as opportunities to be seized. Life opportunities – divine appointments, if you will – to make a difference in someone’s life who may need a kind word, a pat on the back, a helping hand, a bear hug, a listening ear, or the voice of truth saying, “You’re valuable. You’re important. Your life matters and carries inherent significance and meaning.” All of us, at times, need that; and all of us, at a moment’s notice, need to be ready to give it away. To do so means we must be vigilant to watch, to listen, to pay attention to those in our path while there’s time to do so. We only have right now. Yesterday’s a fleeting memory filled with lost opportunity. Tomorrow is not promised or guaranteed. We only have right now. Craig’s tragic passing (and that of others like him) must serve as a neon flashing sign reminder that this thing called life, at best, is hard and very, very brief. But it’s worth living. And if it’s worth living, my fellow classmates, then it’s worth living to the fullest. Make every second count. Because your contribution to life, no matter how big or small it seems, may be the difference maker to someone who is watching you – your child, your co-worker, your friend of thirty years or the waitress that messed up your order for the third time. Somebody needs you. I need you. And you need me. We need each other. So, take a risk. Ask the hard questions. Get your hands dirty. Live with no regrets. There's no doubt that it’ll be worth it in the end.
Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings, whether you know me well, remember me vaguely, or have no clue who I am. I’m a dad of four and a husband of almost 23 years just trying to do life with all that I got. Blessings, PTHS friends of the class of ‘86. I won’t miss the next reunion. Love and prayers to those of you hurting or in need. If I can help, I’m available. – John